♥Mar 20, 2009
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Hello hello hello my dearest children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, if any.
This is my very first post, and I'm gonna share with you:
Why having children is bad good.(It's gonna be crap, but mind it.)
Having children is a BIG job, and of course not to mention, to have more than 10 kids.
You meet an awesome person and fall in love with him. Whenever you think of this person, you will feel really great. Then you two will get married. Though your romance has lost some of its power, it's still flaming. And now, it's time to think about
having children. Research on the web shows that, besides your education, chosen profession and who you chose to marry ultimately, the decision to have children determines your happiness together with your spouse more. So, why not have children, be it a lot or just one? Let me elaborate on this point more.
Having children is only the natural thing to do after you have married. The reason why people marry and have children is biology, and that's what you learn in science lessons. We, as animals, are programmed to WANT to reproduce and have offsprings. And in order to contribute to the society and the ever-ageing population, including ah-mahs like me, we have to reproduce more. This, surprisingly, can link back to our sec one geography, whereby we learnt about population and population pyramids. Nowadays couples either don't want to have children, or they are infertile. Although there's this thing called test-tube baby, many women still preferred not to give birth, for some reasons. This has caused the current phenomenon of more aged than youngsters. Thus we have to give birth to more, so that the young and old populations will be able to balance out. And by doing this, we are doing good by helping the society.
There is also another reason why having children is good. Having children brings joy and fulfillment to a marriage. With children around, you can feel the love and the ever growing sense of pride. To be able to give birth to so many children can be counted as one of your biggest achievements in your whole life. With children, you will feel that as a parent, you want to protect the children. You want to shower your children with all the love, care and concern you can provide them with. With them there, you can never say no but want to live on. Simply because they are part of you. They are your blood, your bone; one essential part of your body and your life.
After you become a parent of your children, you will feel responsible for them. Being concerned parents, you will start catering to their needs ever since they are babies. You will be feeding them their three meals, helping them bathe, teaching them ABC etc. You will be there when your children needs you. Their longed-for voice will definitely be there to answer their desperate calls. Seeing them smile will have brought so much sunshine to your drab life. When they grow up, you will start to plan about their education costs, insurance and their future financial needs. To be able to watch them grow from a small tiny little baby to a grown-up adult, it's your best accomplishment ever. At the end of the day you will realise, that having children will add colours to your life. They are the only ones except your loved ones, who will make sure that the fire of your being will never extinguish. They are the ones who make life worth striving for.
Yay that's all, thanks for being there to endure my crap. But obviously, Yunho must have thought this way right? How very thoughtful of him!
♥ I don't care if you can't understand it or find it weird, but I've tried my best to convey:
Having children is good.Truckloads of love, Grandma Xin Yi. (:
DBSK is love @ 9:01:00 PM